A podcast about gender, identity, orientation, and all the life that happens around them! George is an FtM transgender man, Jess is his pansexual genderqueer wife; they talk parenting, work, and such.
Episodes
Saturday Mar 11, 2017
TPT#209 - Old Man Swears
Saturday Mar 11, 2017
Saturday Mar 11, 2017
Child#2's other mom has asked for him to move with her out of state, and we have no good reason to refuse. But the adventures of raising our most challenging child don't stop just because he's a couple hundred miles away. George went to visit him back before we went to Gallifrey One, and we recap the challenges up to the time he returned, from dealing with controlling ex-in-laws, to informing the kids of the recent death in our chosen family.
Various versions of the Family Circle comic "map" George refers to can be found at http://familycircus.com/comic_tag/billys-map/.
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Saturday Mar 04, 2017
TPT#208 - Let's Do This And See What Happens!
Saturday Mar 04, 2017
Saturday Mar 04, 2017
George's old-guy problems haven't quit, although we get more gendery observations on them. He observes the self-segregation of people by gender, considering his place in one of the two groups that folks tend to segregate themselves into. People who've known George for a long time, but haven't seen him in a while, react to the "effectiveness" of his transition. We consider the struggles of dressing formally by gender.
Oh, and did we mention that George got a new dick? Sooner or later we'll figure out how to attach it!
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Saturday Feb 25, 2017
TPT#207 - Gallifrey Once More
Saturday Feb 25, 2017
Saturday Feb 25, 2017
In case you missed it on our social media, we attended Gallifrey One again this year. After the usual three-ring-circus known as "the logistics of leaving our responsibilities behind", we brought pronoun ribbons (pronounribbons.org) and were lucky enough to find some folks to pass them out on our behalf. Then we went on about our merry con-going, to encounter various awkward situations, and as most transfolk have occasion to do, George overthinks the difference between gendery awkwardness and regular awkwardness.
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Saturday Feb 18, 2017
TPT#206 - A Series Of Unfortunate Events
Saturday Feb 18, 2017
Saturday Feb 18, 2017
At the time of recording, George was supposed to be preparing to visit Child#2 at his mother's house, out of state. But emergency rooms kept happening. Thankfully, not for him this time. We consider, for a moment, the oddities of being treated as male in these situations, how it is different from his prior treatment, and then return to managing the situations.
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Saturday Feb 11, 2017
TPT#205 - Old Guy Problems
Saturday Feb 11, 2017
Saturday Feb 11, 2017
George's body has seemed to age a little more rapidly in the past few years, and while we're not sure whether that's a result of HRT, or stress, or environment, or a little of each, the result is the same. He weighs less, but his pants are tighter. His back and neck pain have increased. And the process of finding a mattress that will better support his aging back has been a long one.
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Saturday Feb 04, 2017
TPT#204 - Everybody Needs To Be Thinking
Saturday Feb 04, 2017
Saturday Feb 04, 2017
We attended the women's march solidarity event for our region, and it was pretty cool. George is a feminist, a TransDad, and a man who was perceived as female for decades, all of which make him a heck of a feminist father. But how to act on that feminism? How does one act as an ally and accomplice in movements for the rights of the oppressed, when one is a member of the dominant (and historically oppressive) culture?
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Saturday Jan 28, 2017
TPT#203 - Women Do It Better
Saturday Jan 28, 2017
Saturday Jan 28, 2017
George's insurance plan rolled over at the new year, and he needed to re-authorize a prescription. Child#2's prescriptions may not be covered for some time until his new insurance is effective in his new state. And Republicans in congress don't care who gets insurance or not, so long as they get to enforce their expectations and worldview. But no matter what is wrong, we know that some woman, somewhere, will be competent to take care of it.
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Saturday Jan 21, 2017
TPT#202 - I'm Tired And I'll Do This Later! (Gender Rebels, Pt. 2)
Saturday Jan 21, 2017
Saturday Jan 21, 2017
We continue our conversation with the Gender Rebels this week, Kath and Faith discuss their experiences travelling before and after transition, and we observe the nature of the transition workload. So many things to do, and it's great that they all get to happen, but damn, it's a lot of work!
You can hear the Gender Rebels at http://genderrebels.podbean.com/ where they host a weekly question-and-answer podcast that explores life outside the gender binary.
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Saturday Jan 14, 2017
TPT#201 - Gender Gymnastics (Gender Rebels, Pt. 1)
Saturday Jan 14, 2017
Saturday Jan 14, 2017
We can has guests?! Sweet! Today we sat down with the amazing ladies of the Gender Rebels podcast. Two transitioning people and their two partners swap stories of, among other things, the mental flexibility required to manage various stages of "outage".
You can hear the Gender Rebels at http://genderrebels.podbean.com/ where they host a weekly question-and-answer podcast that explores life outside the gender binary.
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Saturday Jan 07, 2017
TPT#200 - And A Sex Toy Infomercial At The Hospital
Saturday Jan 07, 2017
Saturday Jan 07, 2017
♪♫ On the adjusted date of Christmas, the universe gave to me: twelve-hour workdays, eight forgotten presents, five diabetic crashes, two cases of norovirus, and a sex toy infomercial at the hospital! ♪♫
As usual, we celebrated Christmas on a day that was not 25 December, but as not-usual it went fairly smoothly. The fun didn't start until later, but when it did, George's status as male made his mother's care easier to manage, and his trans status made his own hospital visit slightly more confusing.
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Saturday Dec 31, 2016
TPT#199 - Chosen Family
Saturday Dec 31, 2016
Saturday Dec 31, 2016
When Child#2 was adopted by George and his ex-wife, they had no clue just how uniquely challenging he would become. We are now preparing for him to move out of state with her, with hope for his improved wellbeing as well as for our sanity. Recordkeeping and other issues could arise, however, when George is still listed on the kid's birth certificate as his mother, and his actual mother isn't listed at all!
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Saturday Dec 24, 2016
TPT#198 - Shoes To Throw
Saturday Dec 24, 2016
Saturday Dec 24, 2016
Can we find a home for the surprise dogs? Will George's birthday combine with Child#3's birthday well? Will Child#0 come to live with us? Is George irritable because of decreased testosterone? Holiday JOY for the whole freaking family abounds, but we don't get to have our holidays yet.
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Saturday Dec 17, 2016
TPT#197 - Broken String All Gone
Saturday Dec 17, 2016
Saturday Dec 17, 2016
Christmas giraffes and flamingoes and dinosaurs are a perfect wrap-up for this bizarre year. George's birthday present made him smile, but he still deals with more irritability than usual as we finish Child#3's birthday celebrations. Did we mention that this is the final section of the discussion we started two weeks ago?
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Saturday Dec 10, 2016
TPT#196 - Practical, Logical Nonsense
Saturday Dec 10, 2016
Saturday Dec 10, 2016
Between Thanksgiving and Christmas, we have birthdays and other to-do's that are unavoidable. The holiday dinner was nice, and comparatively quiet, but the string of gatherings started to pinch George's introvert sensibilities beyond managing, bringing us back to the questions about the effects of HRT on his emotional restraint.
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Saturday Dec 03, 2016
TPT#195 - Seventy Year-Old Toddlers
Saturday Dec 03, 2016
Saturday Dec 03, 2016
As we prepared for Thanksgiving and the rest of the holiday season, we continue to be responsible for other humans with underdeveloped self-care skills. Between a nine-year-old with fecal incontinence and a seventy-year-old with verbal incontinence, we are having a grand old time!
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Saturday Nov 26, 2016
TPT#194 - Libra Moon
Saturday Nov 26, 2016
Saturday Nov 26, 2016
The election results and the changing dynamic among the bigot class have made the world a scarier place, but life keeps chugging along. George is sick, but that doesn't keep him from being responsible for his elderly relatives, who have new adventures with recurring themes.
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Saturday Nov 19, 2016
TPT#193 - Don't Be A D*ck About It.
Saturday Nov 19, 2016
Saturday Nov 19, 2016
It's okay to like things, to dislike things, to like or dislike people, even to have opinions on things or people. But to paraphrase a recent viral tweet, "Opinions are for things like 'I dislike coffee', not 'I dislike black people'." It is generally frowned frowned upon, and for good reason, to dislike people, for certain traits that have been historically used to justify their disenfranchisement. One would break Wheaton's Law to do so. So when we happen to dislike the company of some transgender persons, for reasons not directly related, but possibly tangentially related, to their trans-ness, how does one avoid dickishness?
To even identify traits related to mental health, education, or childlessness, seems judgemental because of the cultural connotations of these characteristics. George has professional skill in how to distance oneself from judgement regarding these concepts, but Jess can't shake the feeling of being the bigger or more advantaged sibling, pointing a finger at their smaller sibling, obnoxiously in their personal space, almost-but-not-quite-touching, saying "I'm not judging you! I'm not judging you! I'm not judging you!"
The little song Jess sang can be found at youtube.com/watch?v=0la5DBtOVNI.
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Saturday Nov 12, 2016
TPT#162 - Q's & A's Round 6
Saturday Nov 12, 2016
Saturday Nov 12, 2016
Did you meet us at some event? What should I do if my kid is trans? Does Jess have any voice tips for MtF's? Does George have any packing preferences for FtM's? Will we host your client on our podcast? We tried for six questions, but only got to five.
The tutorial video for the homemade STP is at youtube.com/watch?v=TLiaVVihEn4 and we have a longer discussion of George's initial experiences with prosthetics in Ep#66 "Packing, Peeing, and P*nises" at transpantastic.net/2014/06/packing-peeing-and-pnises.html.
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Saturday Nov 05, 2016
TPT#191 - Incredulous
Saturday Nov 05, 2016
Saturday Nov 05, 2016
We continue discussing ALL THE THINGS that are kicking George's butt lately, between finding out who ate the cake, and taking the elders to vote, and continuing his game of "which doctor does mom think we're visiting today", he still feels more than a bit overwhelmed. Which has made him more than a bit irritable. And we still haven't settled on why he is more irritable lately, but there's likely some relation to HRT.
Saturday Oct 29, 2016
TPT#190 - Tangentially Related
Saturday Oct 29, 2016
Saturday Oct 29, 2016
It is a common experience among those experiencing medical transition, that HRT can reorient one's emotions and expression of them. George has felt overwhelmed lately, and as many trans guys have mentioned many times before, "I can't cry about it." There's nothing particular to cry about, though, just a lot of little busy things that are each, on their own, only somewhat bothersome. When we put them all together, though, ALL THE THINGS become a bit much.
Saturday Oct 22, 2016
TPT#189 - That's Messed Up!
Saturday Oct 22, 2016
Saturday Oct 22, 2016
Our thoughts on the US elections, with the usual sidetracks and rabbit trails.
Saturday Oct 15, 2016
TPT#188 - Taco Tuesday
Saturday Oct 15, 2016
Saturday Oct 15, 2016
Why do men and women give Jess different change when they are sent to retrieve Jess' lunch from the taco truck? And why on earth would Jess plagiarize a failing term paper? And did that plagiarism report make Jess more sweary than they've ever been? And can George rename election day "taco tuesday"?
Saturday Oct 08, 2016
TPT#187 - Back To The Owlery
Saturday Oct 08, 2016
Saturday Oct 08, 2016
We are a podcast. Well, technically we host a podcast, which is the thing you're probably listening to right now. Unless you're reading the notes without listening, which is your right if you so choose... But as most podcasters like to also listen to podcasts, we discuss some of our favorites, as well as some new transgender voices in podcasting.
Queer & Queerer: zackfordblogs.com/queer-and-queererClimate Stew: climatestew.com/podcastCitizens Climate Lobby: ccl.podbean.comSciFri: sciencefriday.comHidden Brain: npr.org/podcasts/510308/hidden-brainInvisibilia: npr.org/podcasts/510307/invisibiliaVerity!: veritypodcast.wordpress.comWeb of Queer: www.thewebofqueer.comTwo Minute Time Lord: twominutetimelord.comRadio Free Skaro: radiofreeskaro.comTrekCast: trekcast.com2Homos: 2homos.comTransPonder: OHMYGDTHERESNOLINKANYMORE!!11!!Minnesota Trans Atheist: thequeerlife.org/category/transatheistpodChanges In Latitudes: changesinlatitudespodcast.blogspot.comDiary of a Trans Woman: inkedgeekstudios.com/diaryofatranswomanGender Rebels: genderrebels.podbean.comTransgeneral: www.transgeneral.suppliesTrans Life Tho: trans-life-tho.tumblr.comYou're So Brave: soundcloud.com/youre-so-brave-podcast
Transition Transmission: transitiontransmission.comStar Talk: startalkradio.netQueer Theology: queertheology.com/category/podcast/
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Saturday Oct 01, 2016
TPT#186 - "They're All F*ck-A$$es!"
Saturday Oct 01, 2016
Saturday Oct 01, 2016
Our kids' lives are hard. Admittedly they don't have to deal with a lot of problems that children in poverty or trauma survivors experience, but they have their own unique challenges, and it's our job to help them find the adaptability and resiliency to manage themselves before becoming adults. Occasionally, though, we just feel like our Child#2 when he says "I don't wanna!"
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Saturday Sep 24, 2016
TPT#185 - In The Category Of Women
Saturday Sep 24, 2016
Saturday Sep 24, 2016
After decades of living in a female presentation, there are a lot of ways in which George identifies with feminism and feels solidarity with women's causes. We discuss the understanding that many FtMs have of the struggles of female existence, the privilege men have, and the ways in which these causes should be championed in social and political venues.
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Saturday Sep 17, 2016
TPT#184 - The Man In The Room
Saturday Sep 17, 2016
Saturday Sep 17, 2016
As one ages, one generally develops various health problems. George's mother and aunt are both suffering from age-related ailments, which both of them will alternately bemoan or deny. George helps them nonetheless, as he is a total sucker, um, we mean, he is just that good of a person. As they deal with doctors and other medical professionals, how the medics deal with him is very different from the way they deal with the old ladies. How much of that is because of the "old" part, and how much is because of the "ladies" part? George has some male privilege thoughts on that, and on being the random white guy in the convenience store at 2AM.
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Saturday Sep 10, 2016
TPT#183 - A Healthy Work Ethic
Saturday Sep 10, 2016
Saturday Sep 10, 2016
The kids are back to school, and we have done what we can to help them be successful in their transition back into a more scheduled routine. Nonetheless, with these kids, there's always a laugh to be had!
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Saturday Sep 03, 2016
TPT#182 - You Can't Do That Anymore!
Saturday Sep 03, 2016
Saturday Sep 03, 2016
When George was a baby dyke getting catcalled or even occasionally hollering at girls, it was a completely different experience than anything that would ever happen now. There are some behaviours that are really only acceptable in a homosocial context. An interaction between members of similar genders or gender experiences can contain a subtext of common experience, but cross-gender interactions often exist in an expansive context of patriarchy, historical oppression, and cultural expectations that can make otherwise innocuous comments seem inappropriate.
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Saturday Aug 27, 2016
TPT#181 - Government Math
Saturday Aug 27, 2016
Saturday Aug 27, 2016
The American government has been occasionally known to do things that are only tangentially related to reality. When "7-12" is not included in "0-12", or when the number of genders finally needs to be greater than two, our careers in public service help the local government figure out some maths.
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Saturday Aug 20, 2016
TPT#180 - Trans Things Happen
Saturday Aug 20, 2016
Saturday Aug 20, 2016
When an old (pre-transition) picture of George resurfaces at work, what will his new intern think? Will she even notice? Will she recognize him? And what on earth were his bosses thinking in even bringing it to the intern's attention?!
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Saturday Aug 13, 2016
TPT#179 - Over Here... No Over Here! (Yosemite Road Trip, Pt. 2)
Saturday Aug 13, 2016
Saturday Aug 13, 2016
As we finish the discussion of our trip to Yosemite, we have a discussion with Jess' aunt, the one who asked which child George birthed, about Child#2's adoption and her own adoption of one of her four kids. Then continuing with our challenging children through a poopy train ride, repeated swim breaks, and George's discomfort over using an STP in the most crowded bathroom in the middle of nowhere with the dick patrol in tow.
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Saturday Aug 06, 2016
TPT#178 - A Composite Picture (Yosemite Road Trip, Pt. 1)
Saturday Aug 06, 2016
Saturday Aug 06, 2016
In the first half of our discussion of our family's trip to Yosemite, we discuss George's adaptations to a lower dose of T and how that's affected his emotions as he deals with the stresses of a family vacation. Our children's challenges didn't get left behind, and managing them in places that aren't "home" present a completely unique set of challenges, in addition to the challenges of meeting up with family when wireless coverage is spotty in a national park.
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Saturday Jul 30, 2016
TPT#177 - Monkey Moustache
Saturday Jul 30, 2016
Saturday Jul 30, 2016
George recently got a male privilege upgrade. Gender discrepancies in pay and treatment at work are well documented, but transgender folks often have unique insights after experiencing cultural expectations in different gender presentations. We discuss how George's colleagues, including some who have known him for over a decade, treat him differently now. Jess is jealous, but gets to rib him about his moustache, or lack thereof, so life is okay.
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Saturday Jul 23, 2016
TPT#176 - Donut Holes
Saturday Jul 23, 2016
Saturday Jul 23, 2016
Health care and insurance can be troubling. Thankfully we have good coverage, as does George's mom, but that doesn't mean it's always easy to access that coverage, or that they won't get confused when some guy needs to visit the gynecologist. Even better, when George is managing insurance troubles for himself and his mother, he is stuck making calls during the work day so his cubicle-neighbor gets to hear the very specific details about which antidepressant he takes.
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Saturday Jul 16, 2016
TPT#175 - My Scale Doesn't Go That High
Saturday Jul 16, 2016
Saturday Jul 16, 2016
As we did the survey from last week's episode, it made us think about the balance of chores and household labor in our home and how that is different from more typically heteronormative couples. Jess also learned, and was mildly concerned by, the fact that George's happiness dial only has one click above average. George has embraced his inner Eeyore, however, and is more content with his life now, than he has ever been, even with the dick patrol running around.
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Saturday Jul 09, 2016
TPT#174 - Resting Guy Face
Saturday Jul 09, 2016
Saturday Jul 09, 2016
George never learned how to fish as a kid. Maybe because he didn't like fish, maybe because the elder males didn't want to teach a little girl how, maybe because he was a little kid and didn't like the whole sitting-and-waiting-for-a-bite thing. Either way, taking our kids fishing has been a gender-enlightening experience, as random guys are just cool interacting with another random guy, and as we reflect on how parenting and transition affect one another.
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Saturday Jul 02, 2016
TPT#173 - Do The Thing!
Saturday Jul 02, 2016
Saturday Jul 02, 2016
The kids were driving George batty. Child#1 is sneaky, Child#2 is angry, and Child#3 is whiny. Jess gets preachy, Bob-the-dog is smelly, we just need one more dwarf for a full set... Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who's the bothered-est of them all?
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Saturday Jun 25, 2016
TPT#172 - Skirt PTSD
Saturday Jun 25, 2016
Saturday Jun 25, 2016
George is mostly-stealth at work. And by mostly-stealth, we mean about half the office remembers his transition, but everyone's fairly insular, so nobody talks much, and new colleagues generally have no clue that he is trans. Gender is, nonetheless, an integral part of one's professional presentation at work, for both of us.
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Saturday Jun 18, 2016
TPT#171 - Scary Nipples
Saturday Jun 18, 2016
Saturday Jun 18, 2016
Only in the trans community do we verb our pronouns... "They 'she'd me!" George has gotten 'she'd at least four times in the past month. But overall, in most settings, George is just a guy. Which is kind of awesome.
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Saturday Jun 11, 2016
TPT#170 - Multitasking Your Self-Care
Saturday Jun 11, 2016
Saturday Jun 11, 2016
We do our best to be responsible. Lots of people we interact with either never learned how be responsible, forgot how to be responsible, or just choose not to be responsible. We want the world to be a better place, so we do our best to help those we care for, whether it's raising children or supporting elders. But can SuperTransDad save the world and his own sanity?
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Saturday Jun 04, 2016
TPT#169 - Weenie Wagger
Saturday Jun 04, 2016
Saturday Jun 04, 2016
The school year is winding down, and the kids are getting antsy to be done with responsibilities. But home still has responsibilities and expectations of civil behaviour and appropriate self-management. Darnit.
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Saturday May 28, 2016
TPT#168 - FacePalm
Saturday May 28, 2016
Saturday May 28, 2016
The family and friends we visited during the funeral and surrounding weekend were quite enjoyable company. The folks we left behind, however, insisted on continuing to cause us trouble while we were gone. We back up to last week's story and tie up some loose ends, and continue the tale of the trip to Michigan.
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Saturday May 21, 2016
TPT#167 - Is This Really The Reality?
Saturday May 21, 2016
Saturday May 21, 2016
As we've been discussing preparations for, we finally got to Michigan for the funeral. Regardless of over-planning everything, Murphy's Law takes over when it can. From difficulties with overnight flights and hotels that weren't really ready to be open yet, to all the responsibilities that we *tried* to leave behind, to Jess' caffeine addiction and driving past the graveyard, nothing can ever be easy... Except maybe Jess' conservative family?
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Saturday May 14, 2016
TPT#166 - Are We Gonna Have That Much Nonsense?
Saturday May 14, 2016
Saturday May 14, 2016
As we prepare to visit Jess' family, some of whom are rather conservative, we have a discussion about conversational frameworks in which he would prefer Jess discuss or answer questions regarding his transition. He has also felt increased social and physical dysphoria lately, comparing his own physical presence to that of other (presumably cisgender) males.
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Saturday May 07, 2016
TPT#165 - Funerals Are What We Do
Saturday May 07, 2016
Saturday May 07, 2016
We have a funeral to attend halfway across the country, mostly to see Jess' family but also because there's a dead guy. Which means making arrangements for our responsibilities to be managed in our absence. But when Kid#2 just had his meds changed, Jess is staring teacher-transfer season in the face, and our pre-arranged childcare falls through, it's never easy. Ever.
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Saturday Apr 30, 2016
TPT#164 - Blood Stains On The Carpet
Saturday Apr 30, 2016
Saturday Apr 30, 2016
Spring break happened. Child#2's teachers wanted to schedule a meeting ASAP before it did, and we were mildly concerned that it might be a problem, but it turned out to be mostly mundane. Which is good, because things are rarely, if ever, mundane with this kid. George took him on a vacation to visit family while Jess caught up on school work, and hijinks followed as usual.
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Saturday Apr 23, 2016
TPT#163 - It Has To Change (Tall Friend, Pt. 2)
Saturday Apr 23, 2016
Saturday Apr 23, 2016
Last week we heard the beginning of a really difficult story, about how our friend became a homeless transgender spoonie. This week we discuss her continuing struggles, and how to maintain hope in the midst of a struggle for rights, for support, and often even for survival.
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Saturday Apr 16, 2016
TPT#162 - Other Things They Sometimes Call Us (Tall Friend, Pt. 1)
Saturday Apr 16, 2016
Saturday Apr 16, 2016
We've mentioned our tall friend a few times over the run of this show. We finally got to sit down and talk with her at a microphone, which we've been trying to schedule for a while. But scheduling is tough when you're homeless, which is often a result of transitioning. Not only is she homeless, she also struggles with chronic pain resulting from a hit-and-run. This week we'll hear the start of her narrative, and you'll have to tune in next week to hear the rest of the homeless transgender spoonie story.
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Saturday Apr 09, 2016
TPT#161 - I Gotta Have Faith
Saturday Apr 09, 2016
Saturday Apr 09, 2016
"What should we talk about?"
"I don't know, what haven't we talked about in a while?"
"Religion?"
"Okay."
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Saturday Apr 02, 2016
TPT#160 - Q and A #5
Saturday Apr 02, 2016
Saturday Apr 02, 2016
You sent in questions, we answered to the microphone. The pitch of our voices, romantic relationships, social interactions, healthcare and insurance, and feminism, all found their way to our brains and your ears this week!